Is your child making Good Choices?

Is your child making Good Choices?

Does your child have a hard time making good decisions?

That’s OK! Often times young children may find it difficult to follow the rules. The good news is that they are not doing this on purpose. After years of working with this young children and observing the emotional and social stages of development, we recognize that every decision they make (Good or Bad) ultimately has a positive intention.

One of the best things a parent and/or coach can do is set our kids up for success. The way we accomplish this in the dojo is by promoting good behavior. By promoting their good behavior we begin to develop a “feel good” pattern when our students do something correctly. Here are a few tips you can use at home to prompt good behavior!


Observe your child in action:

Observe what decisions or habits your child struggles with and the signs related to that behavior. Choose 1 or 2 that you want them to improve upon. This could be something like remembering to brush their teeth before they go to bed or putting their toys away when they are finished playing.

Create opportunities for action:

Create opportunities for your child to make good decisions. This may require dropping subtle hints to get the ball rolling. The idea is to put them in a position to make a proper decision. For example, after finishing dinner you can say “Can you show me where to put my plate since we are done eating?”

Reward their action:

Timing is everything! After you create an opportunity for your child, and they make a proper decision, reward them. It is even better if you can catch them doing well when they least expect it! Tell them how proud you are that they were able to think it through. Acknowledge that they did something fantastic and give them a big hug or high-five.

Stay consistent:

Lastly, helping our child develop good decision-making skills is a process. They will undoubtedly need many hints and lots of repetition before it becomes habit. Always be on the lookout for good behavior and reinforce it daily.

Our most important tools are the knowledge and patience that we as parents provide to our children to help them make good choices more often and continue to grow and become amazing kids.

I hope you found this helpful; if you have any questions, feel free to ask us anytime!

Yours truly for awesome and amazing kids,

Sensei Randy Kopke

Sylvania Family Karate

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